Ever got
into a street race.. Try to relive the thrill of that moment when you don’t
care about how mad is your girlfriend after
you forgot her birthday ,what would happen if you get into an accident.. Why
have you done this or that stupid thing in the past? Blah...Blah.
Try to
visualize the last time you faced a viva or gave an exam. All of your focus was
to do your best In that 1 hour.. This is what we call living in now.
People talk
about what shitty things or good things happened to them in the past. Everyone
knows talking about it won’t make any difference. We try not to talk about it
but can’t help it.
Every single
person reading this article knows this so called OBVIOUS fact but none of us
have ever tried actually to live in present. I have just Read the book the
power of now by Eckhart Tolle recommended to me by a friend. And believe me or
not. Today itself i realised the power of now.
Each of us
wants to live in now but we have no idea what the hell does it means.
To cut it
short.
These are
the things you need to do in order to experience the true present. Neither a
moment after now.. Nor a moment before now.
1. Pay
attention on what you are doing at this moment. If i am not wrong I’d say you
are reading the steps and thinking how long is this article .Well if you have
kept up till now read a few more lines.
2. Forget
about all the other things you have to do this include your projects, facebook,
whatsapp, games, studies...etc.
3. Go back
to step 2 and try again: P
4. I mean
seriously do as asked.
5. Okay, if
you have cleared your mind of all the other stuffs memorize all that you have
read till now.
6. If you were
able to recollect most of it i.e. at least the steps you were living in
now...Else go back to step 1 and try again.
7. If you
did go back to step 1 you would have realised this time all of your focus was
to remember the steps you weren’t worried about your noisy roommate, your
broken fan or of anything else. And you were actually living in now. Next time
try to remember everything you read.
8. Now,
Remember these
8 steps when you switch back to your work.
When you are
living in the present... well to be more precise when you are actually living
in the present you don’t care about the clock time instead you should care
about the psychological time. It will automatically get you access to clock
time.
To
understand it better consider this example.
Say Today
you have to complete an assignment, Do you laundry pay your bills, buy grocery.
You decide
to get all these things done in a particular time window. Obviously if you are
living in now you won’t worry about any other work but what you are doing at
this moment you can’t look at the clock again and again worrying about how much
time is left for you to complete this work since looking at clock will take you
to worries about the future.
Here comes
the role of psychological time which is your own perception of duration. with a
little practice you shall have a great command over psychological time and you won’t
be needing clock time any more.
Advantages
of Now.
We know we
can’t decide the future. We may have a basic idea about what would be the
outcome of our certain actions. But we can’t guarantee those would be outcomes.
The only way to ensure it is to work now and forget about the future.
Stress
overtakes when you think about all the things you need to do without any Idea
of when you’d start working on them.
You must
have noticed how you feel relaxed after making a time table for studies before an
exam.. before even starting to prepare because you have already created the
picture of what is going to come to you if you start working according to the
time table but you never follow it and this leads to stress.
It would
have certainly helped you a lot if you would have completed one of the tasks
instead of making the time table.
It doesn't mean
that we should stop making time tables. Just make sure that you focus on what
needs to be done right now at this particular moment and stop worrying about
the remaining tasks.
Try this for
once I bet you would be surprised by the results.
P.S: There
is never a good time for anything so start to live in now NOW.
Xlnt
ReplyDeleteXlnt
ReplyDelete